Rules

A membership for all - however you identify when it comes to gender, sexuality, background or body type you are welcome and you will find an inclusive, fun and empowering space.

There is no age limit - whether you are at school or a retiree, you are welcome. Under 16s please get permission to join.

Be Kind and Courteous. We are all in this together to create a welcoming environment. Please treat everyone with respect and, as RuPaul says, “kindness is the new cool.”

Respect everyone’s privacy. Being part of The Parlour requires mutual trust. Authentic, expressive discussions make groups great but may also be sensitive and private. What goes on in The Parlour, stays in The Parlour.

No promotions or spam. The Parlour Instagram or any area of The Parlour is not suitable for sales or self promotion. If this happens you may have your membership revoked.

No heavy or difficult debates. The Parlour is a place of relaxation and celebration. Anyone “playing devil’s advocate” or initiating strong debates or conversations about heavy or harmful topics may be removed from The Parlour.

Be cautious about oversharing. Whilst The Parlour is a space of support and sharing is encouraged, it is no substitute for professional therapy. Highly sensitive posts should come with a trigger warning or be avoided.

Be involved, as much or as little as you like. The Parlour is for you to enjoy in your own way. Post, share, comment as much as you like.

Have fun and celebrate yourself! It’s time for you to celebrate you! I want you to have somewhere gorgeous that you can escape to. Wherever you are and whatever is going on.

Please note: this membership will use instagram for a substantial amount of the content. If you do not have an account please consider joining for the best possible experience.